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May 25th, 2007Well last night and this morning i had my first frustration. It is one of those - can’t control things - and I know it is really my issue and not his - but it is still frustrating. And to top it off I am still pissed off this morning. I have to get over this before our trip today.
Basically here is my frustration:
I rushed home from what I was doing so that we could go to the store together and then pack. When i got home he was sleeping. I made some dinner for myself and told him I would be in to wake him up in a hour so that we could go to the store. An hour later - as promised - i woke him up. He said he didnt want to go. I told him fine and then said when i get back we could pack.
I go to the store - spend an hour there and head home. Once home, he is still sleeping. I wake him up and say that I have to pack. He said fine and that he would get up in a few minutes and pack.
I got my packing done last night and slept on the couch. He slept through the whole night and packed this morning.
I planned a pretty long hike for Saturday. This morning when packing i asked if he needed to borrow a pair of wool socks. He said - well we arent going to do much hiking are we? Hello - I just sent you an itinerary of what the weekend was going to look like!
Then I said - well you are also going to need to wool socks for when you sleep. He said - well we will be inside why do I need wool socks. WE ARE GOING CAMPING! He said - what? We are going camping and sleeping in a tent? I didnt know this.
WHAT THE HELL HAVE I BEEN PLANNING THIS ENTIRE TIME? I SENT HIM LINKS!
So in addition to the not getting help packing - there is obviously a HUGE communication gap occurring somewhere.
I really need to get over this before we leave or this is going to be a really long weekend.

Haha! I didn’t even go on the trip and I knew what you were doing and where you were going. =)
By Michie, on 05/27/07 at 3:53 pm