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	<title>Comments on: Can&#8217;t win</title>
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		<title>By: mooks</title>
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		<description>dear michelle,
in an effort to let sleeping babes rest i&#039;ve chosen some light reading until i shut my eyes.
i&#039;m raising my hand so you can call on my for my valued or under valued opinion, whether or not you want it, or take it, here is is (sorry i&#039;m a little late).
so, i know we all have this idea in our head that every thing has to be a certain way to be perfect...but that&#039;s just an idea. the fact of the matter is that everything WILL be perfect, no one else knows what you&#039;ve invisioned your entire life and only you will know what is or what is not missing. 
here&#039;s what matters: you and eric are getting married.
your loved ones will be there.
the rest is just icing on the cake. if you have to rent linens, so be it, what will be left when you&#039;re done is photos of nicely decorated tables and some time on the front end that you wouldn&#039;t have the other way. 
as for the car, you need not worry, we&#039;ll work on that (sans a dinner plate!!). 
let&#039;s talk more soon, don&#039;t worry, it will be a beautiful day, that stuff is just stuff. in the end, what matters is your happiness.
xo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dear michelle,<br />
in an effort to let sleeping babes rest i&#8217;ve chosen some light reading until i shut my eyes.<br />
i&#8217;m raising my hand so you can call on my for my valued or under valued opinion, whether or not you want it, or take it, here is is (sorry i&#8217;m a little late).<br />
so, i know we all have this idea in our head that every thing has to be a certain way to be perfect&#8230;but that&#8217;s just an idea. the fact of the matter is that everything WILL be perfect, no one else knows what you&#8217;ve invisioned your entire life and only you will know what is or what is not missing.<br />
here&#8217;s what matters: you and eric are getting married.<br />
your loved ones will be there.<br />
the rest is just icing on the cake. if you have to rent linens, so be it, what will be left when you&#8217;re done is photos of nicely decorated tables and some time on the front end that you wouldn&#8217;t have the other way.<br />
as for the car, you need not worry, we&#8217;ll work on that (sans a dinner plate!!).<br />
let&#8217;s talk more soon, don&#8217;t worry, it will be a beautiful day, that stuff is just stuff. in the end, what matters is your happiness.<br />
xo</p>
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